The amount of needless angst posted in that group makes me sick. If I read one more, "it's tearing me apart," or, "I fucking hate him/her for 'it'," or, "It hurts...," I just, I don't know what I'll do.
If only those kiddos knew anything of the kinds of horrid things happening outside of their personal pity party. Unbelievable the kind of ignorance I've read there. I almost become insulted by it.
It's one of the reasons people should focus more on supporting psychological professionals and mental help groups. There are a lot of things that would be better about the world if people only knew how to properly use the tools given them.
But see the human mentality in trained to be self-focused so it makes sure the self survives first and is more important than others. Your brain basically tricks you into thinking "I AM SPECIAL" and unless you take that message with a grain of salt, you will believe you are the single most unique person on earth.