Wait, somewhere in the thread you mentioned that he didn't actually sleep with anyone. So what exactly did he do that classifies as cheating? Did he make-out with someone? Did he form some sort of bond with another person? And if he did, wouldn't he be ok with breaking up with you instead of trying to fix things? I'm confused.
If my boyfriend made out with someone, I'd be fucking shitting myself with anger, but wouldn't consider throwing his things out just yet.
Well, I guess you can think of it that he realized it wasn't what he really wanted and stopped before it went any further. Which is probably why he thought it's best if he had told you the truth rather than it somehow coming up much later from some stranger. I can't give any good advice as I've never dealt with infidelity firsthand. Hope you resolve it the way it's best for you.
VaniBunFeatured By OwnerDec 25, 2012Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I never understood the concept of cheating. Yea, he grew up with her... So what? If she meant that much to him and he wanted to be with her it's called growing a pair and leaving the other person before dating another. And if your significant other means that much well then why the fuck screw it up?
There are some bonds that can't be mended or need a lot of character to mend. Can you continue on with this relationship even after this? How far did he even go? Keep us updated penguin!
Go into a deep depression and cry yourself to sleep every night. After awhile, become an alcoholic and while you're at it, become a prostitute. Then realize that your life is meaningless and become an hero.
Leave him. Honestly, I am not really a good person on giving advice because I am sort of a "Tit-for-Tat" type of person. I would tell you to go sleep around behind his back or even in front of his face.