I'm not the type of person to rely heavily on friends because frankly, I've yet to find a friend who stays by your side no matter what. People are selfish. It's a sad fact. Your BFF is being somewhat of a douche though...if she knew the person whose funeral she is attending and would actually care about the funeral itself, it would be another matter entirely. But as I said, people are selfish. You should try and make the best out of your birthday by yourself. Learning how to cope with situations like this will be worth a lot when you get older. Also, learn to shrug this stuff off. Don't vent it, don't think about it, don't mull on it. Just shrug it off and do something nice for yourself.

Regarding your friend, you should tell her how you feel to her face. If she can't handle it, she is not a real friend. Chasing some guy to a funeral is rather sketchy in itself. I wouldn't be angry about ditching me on my birthday but if my friend attended a funeral just to hit on a guy...ehh...not quite the type of person I'd hang around with.

Birthdays aren't special and you're a faggot for thinking so.

eh, some friends are like that can some friends won't be.....the only way to really know is to call her retard fatass....if she's laughs then she's your real friend. If she doesn't well then I think you need some more considerate friends.

She seems to not have her priorities in order kinda messed up to go to a funeral just to gush over some guy.

Remember, friends are like slinkies. Completely useless until you push them down a flight of stairs.

It's a fucking funeral for fuck's sake. She wants to emotionally support the guy she likes. You'll have another birthday next year, so grow up and get over yourself, or you'll find that nobody will want to spend your birthday or any other day with you.

So, she's going to blow you off after she suggested she'll spend time with you to go to a stranger's funeral in an attempt to butter up to a guy who doesn't even know her? Wow... Why would you bother with her? Also, wait until your 21. It's more fun.

It doesn't matter whether she knows the person who died or not. She's going to support the guy she likes, who she used to be friends with.

Don't be. Stupid friend is stupid. Let her get a restraining order put against her.

I'm not sure how I'd feel about it. I mean, I only have your word that she went to the funeral, not to grieve, but to see a guy that she liked many years ago If she's going to the funeral for genuine purposes, then there's nothing to be upset about. You can't really predict things like that. Funerals take precedence over birthdays.

Buuuuut, if she really is going to flirt with some guy... well, she's a saucy tart

First of all, this is worded in such a convoluted way that it's hard to follow what exactly is going on here. Dear lord, I actually had to read through this horror two times.

Also, you can't expect for people to stay behind just because it's your birthday. Perhaps they have plans with their families. If you didn't make plans in advance, you can't expect them to.

Also, she's going to a FUNERAL. Perhaps she's there to support someone? Get over yourself. 

I find it horrible that she's using his friends death to get close to him.

Also, talking about your best friend on a forum? Not cool dude.