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how insulted should i be?

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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
we'll tommorow is my 18th birthday. yippee. woo. after graduation most of my friends deserted leaving just me and my bff - or who i THOUGHT was my bff. She suggested that after going out for the day with my family that me and her stay at her place and watch movies etc. remember, SHE suggested it. Now when she was in grade 7 (like 2 years before we met) she had a crush on this guy. she new him for a year (we've known eachother for 4) when she was 12. now she told my mum to tell me that I cant go to her house because she's going to some guy she didnt knows funeral so that she can see this guy she knew like 6 fricken years ago - who, by the way, stopped returning her emails about a month after he left.

my question to you fine people is exactly how pissed of shoud I be? My last remaining friend would rather go to a FUNERAL than spend some time with me on my birthday. RAWRWWTEFYR.
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Self-Epidemic Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2012  Professional Digital Artist
You are far too self entitled. Seriously, its a birthday. WHO GIVES A FUCK. Just fucking rearrange it.
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Sarosna Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'm not the type of person to rely heavily on friends because frankly, I've yet to find a friend who stays by your side no matter what. People are selfish. It's a sad fact. Your BFF is being somewhat of a douche though...if she knew the person whose funeral she is attending and would actually care about the funeral itself, it would be another matter entirely. But as I said, people are selfish. You should try and make the best out of your birthday by yourself. Learning how to cope with situations like this will be worth a lot when you get older. Also, learn to shrug this stuff off. Don't vent it, don't think about it, don't mull on it. Just shrug it off and do something nice for yourself.

Regarding your friend, you should tell her how you feel to her face. If she can't handle it, she is not a real friend. Chasing some guy to a funeral is rather sketchy in itself. I wouldn't be angry about ditching me on my birthday but if my friend attended a funeral just to hit on a guy...ehh...not quite the type of person I'd hang around with.
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Babushka-Nipples Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2012
Birthdays aren't special and you're a faggot for thinking so.
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HametsuNoCharge Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
eh, some friends are like that can some friends won't be.....the only way to really know is to call her retard fatass....if she's laughs then she's your real friend. If she doesn't well then I think you need some more considerate friends.
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risesatspring Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
She seems to not have her priorities in order :| kinda messed up to go to a funeral just to gush over some guy.
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GreenEyedYoshika Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Remember, friends are like slinkies. Completely useless until you push them down a flight of stairs.
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MasterPlanner Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Professional Artisan Crafter
It's a fucking funeral for fuck's sake. She wants to emotionally support the guy she likes. You'll have another birthday next year, so grow up and get over yourself, or you'll find that nobody will want to spend your birthday or any other day with you.

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kitsumekat Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
So, she's going to blow you off after she suggested she'll spend time with you to go to a stranger's funeral in an attempt to butter up to a guy who doesn't even know her? Wow... Why would you bother with her? Also, wait until your 21. It's more fun.
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
yeah its not a super situation :/ and i must admit, there really isn't anything changing on my 18th lol. I can't even start voting because I'm not a canadian citizen haha. Woo for 21 :)
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kitsumekat Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
Yes!
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dorkface4 Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
It doesn't matter whether she knows the person who died or not. She's going to support the guy she likes, who she used to be friends with.
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Kyllian Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
Don't be. Stupid friend is stupid. Let her get a restraining order put against her.
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Kizziesama Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
I'm not sure how I'd feel about it. I mean, I only have your word that she went to the funeral, not to grieve, but to see a guy that she liked many years ago :shrug: If she's going to the funeral for genuine purposes, then there's nothing to be upset about. You can't really predict things like that. Funerals take precedence over birthdays.

Buuuuut, if she really is going to flirt with some guy... well, she's a saucy tart :grump:
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LOVEintheSNOW Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist
First of all, this is worded in such a convoluted way that it's hard to follow what exactly is going on here. Dear lord, I actually had to read through this horror two times.

Also, you can't expect for people to stay behind just because it's your birthday. Perhaps they have plans with their families. If you didn't make plans in advance, you can't expect them to.

Also, she's going to a FUNERAL. Perhaps she's there to support someone? :unimpressed: Get over yourself. 
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Sapphire-Ashesx Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
I find it horrible that she's using his friends death to get close to him.
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MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Also, talking about your best friend on a forum? Not cool dude.
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
The plan was I could blow off a little steam now so I didn't feel the need to say stupid things to her.
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MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
If I'm angry with my friend, I tell her to her face. We get pissed at each other for ten minutes and move on. I always thought friendship was about saying stupid things without having to pay for it later.
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
Well I guess that sounds like a good approach to try. Thank you :)
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sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
How much you want to bet she won't even mention this thread to her friend?

All this disloyalty behind their back conveniently omitted just to not reveal how much of a distrusting jerk they are. See, a sensible person would cut the bullshit and get right to the point. But then again, since when were children ever "sensible"?
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MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Hey, it's part of being a teenager. :shrug:
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sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
Better yet, so are the consequences!

Oooooh, it's so fun building character!

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MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
:lmao:
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sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
Hey, it worked for me.

But only because I wanted to get rid of her once and for all, and she took the bait hook, line and sinker. It's good that Complaints unwittingly helped me get rid of a total lunatic with Borderline Personality Disorder. Now THAT was a bad friend!
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MurphysDinnerParty Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
You guys are at an age when you're both selfish. Understandably, you are upset because it is your eighteenth birthday and you didn't have your best friend to spend it with. However, it is just your birthday. When you get older, you'll care less and less about it. And friendship shouldn't be tested over something like abandonment for one day out of the whole year. When times get really tough and your friend is there, that is true friendship.

Besides, your eighteenth birthday won't seem like anything once you reach your twenty first :lol:
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
Thank you
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3wyl Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
So.. still high school, right?
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
Nope I graduated at 17. So technically this is post-high school drama if that's what you're hinting at.
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3wyl Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
That must be pretty fascinating.
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sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
:iconbenderplz::iconsaysplz:No, that other thing...Tedious!
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3wyl Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Pfft. Tedious? I wouldn't have ever thought so! :no:
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
Oh yes. Incredibly so.
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3wyl Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I can imagine. :B
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CindarellaPop Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
She sounds like a crazy bitch. Have a fun birthday without her and forget about her. When you see her again, gently remind her that she's a nutbar for using a dead man to try and stalk someone she thinks is cute.
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
Well she's not entirely crazy. I mean she's still my friend and i dont hate her or angling, but ya know. Shitty decision on her part. But I WILL still try and enjoy my day. Thanks.
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Penhuin Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Wow. Someone dies and all you can think about is your perfect birthday. Turning 18 isn't all that special, get over it and grow up.
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
Omg yes your entirely right. Because I want nothing more than my perfect birthday of myself and one other person watching tv for an hour. Your right. And of course I would kill everyone on this earth so that I could have a fairy tale day that's all sparkly and rainbows and perfectness.

I'm just a little pissy that my best friend would pick the funeral of someone she's never met in her entire life over me. I'm so sorry if that makes me a terrible person.
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Penhuin Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Of course you're pissy. You're a teenager and selfish like teenagers tend to be.
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
Yes that is true.
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phoenixleo Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
Show ImagesI almost care by `phoenixleo
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sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
Every time I see that man's face, I feel like he's going to send me on a suicide mission. I can see it in his eyes.

Damn that brilliant lunatic!
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phoenixleo Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
He is bloody awesome yes!
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sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
"Hmmm, nyeees!"
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phoenixleo Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
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290Pika Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student Filmographer
You sound very entitled.
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
I'm sorry?
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290Pika Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student Filmographer
You sound very entitled.
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
I'm not sure what you mean ( excuse my ignorance there' but what do you mean by entitled?)
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sbkMulletMan Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012
Oh, for fuck's sake, HERE:

[link]

What do they even teach you kids in school these days, how to update your facebook page?
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pendawg Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2012  Student General Artist
Sorry what was I supposed to get from that link?
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