Several people are truly incapable of fixing their current situations, particularly because they're either kids or teenagers. For them, it's not about standing up and moving under a bridge on their own because mommy didn't hug them enough, that's just not how it works - they need superficial support and a smile on their face to pull through the few years they've left on "house nightmare".
If you're incapable of dishing such a simple thing out, then I suggest you stop putting yourself up for it like an idiot.
Did I touch a nerve, or something? Oops, my bad. Still stand for what I wrote.
Not all people with issues are teenagers, you know. Some are adults and are fully capable of understanding when they need to do. That being said, it doesn't excuse teenagers to act like their lives are the worst and it's up to everyone else to solve it for them.
I can give "superficial support" and smile. I have no problem doing that. But! When they are demanding me to solve their goddamn life crisis for them and give up my own life for their sake, they have crossed the line.