Ugh. Personally, not as bad as when you get dozens of feedback messages, and they're all favourites. Usually for the same person - I wish you had an option to stop notifying you about faves and stuff like that. Also, have you tried 'splintering' your menu? It separates the watch, feedback and such messages so you know how much feedback you get without having you check. I use it all the time.
I wish there were a way to delete all notifications at once. I haven't cleaned out my devWatch in a while and have upwards of 8,000 deviation notifications.
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