Well, my holding in of my temper got me in trouble. Anyone ever do this when you lose it and say the wrong thing to someone that it scares them and you didn't mean to? People always tell me to just talk if something bothers me. Yeah, how? I've lost friends that way when speaking my mind. I've gotten used to it though, being away from other people. Peace and Quiet, no one bugs me and vise versa. I'm happy. Well, I'm so used to it, it doesn't bother me. I just shrug and move on.
I honestly hate this repetitiveness of losing friends. I don't know what to do really other than avoid people completely. That works as I normally am not social and prefer to be alone. I suck at being social with others as 1, they get annoyed when I do say anything or 2, they don't have the same interests as me.
I've heard most people with autism or Aspergers have problems socializing and making friends. Yeah,I have that and can relate to that very easily.
I do have it, and was diagnosed since childhood with it.
I honestly am sick of it when some use it as an excuse to not better themselves. I honestly stopped repeating the bit of making friends because of where it got me, nowhere.
Zipgirl got sick of me because I said the same thing others have been telling me. I didn't want to hear it at the time, but those people were right. I may be a bit slow on some things,but do figure it out.
Yeah when I get mad, do I do this, which makes it worse. I don't hold back either when angry. Honestly, I get it from my real dad as he's like that. Very honest and straight forward. I was raised to be honest with people.
Too honest perhaps. As Cyndi once said, the filter between brain and mouth isn't all there with me. Sometimes I say something then realize too late it hurt someone's feelings. If the person was a jerk to me, well I don't take back what I said. I understand if I say something by accident.
I am a nice guy, very much so. Though as I said in this thread, holding in my anger is not a good thing. It's backfired on me before.
I honestly hate this repetitiveness of losing friends. I don't know what to do really other than avoid people completely. That works as I normally am not social and prefer to be alone. I suck at being social with others as 1, they get annoyed when I do say anything or 2, they don't have the same interests as me.
I've heard most people with autism or Aspergers have problems socializing and making friends. Yeah,I have that and can relate to that very easily.