Well, it's more so that I'm trying to end this whole commission deal for reasons and I'm trying to get her to choose one of the options I gave her, which is why it's so frustrating, because I just want to put this away so I can focus on other things and I just don't have to deal with this situation in the back of my head. And me wanting to do any of the other options I gave her is becoming less and less because she just isn't responding. But yeah I'll just have to wait it out/send another note letting her know she has __ days to respond, yada yada, idek wot i'm doinq.
A friend of mine suggested the same thing. I don't actually have her email though since she just contacted me here on dA and went from there. It's also that her friend sent me the payment, and yes, it was half up front. I'm considering just sending her another note letting her know that I'll be sending the money back to her friend and that's that. Though yes I could also just go with the "few days to respond"-thing.